I'm about to sound horrible I imagine but I need to have a moan.
I'm really struggling at the moment when DSC come over as I just find it so incredibly.... Boring and irritating.
We have them every weekend without fail. DH and Ex just decide when they are staying, there is no routine but we often have them over 4 nights a week and always over the weekend. I've tried to get him to see a set routine would be so much better for everyone involved but he daren't say no to ex.
I just feel like my entire weekend is spent keeping out of the way whilst they take over the house playing games, talking to their friends on headsets loudly etc... They've taken to one sitting upstairs in the bedroom and the other in the lounge downstairs so they can both sit on the phones to friends whilst they play.
I just feel like my house is taken over every weekend, I never have any time to chill out at a weekend or just sit in my own lounge. DH is rubbish at doing other things with them, I've given up trying to get them to do other things now as they just aren't interested and DH doesn't bother joining in so I feel like why should I? But at the same time I just can't wait for them to go to bed so I can have my house back.
I find it so annoying never knowing when they are coming from one week to the next during the week. There is no structure for anyone.
I'm slowly starting to resent the time they spend here and I don't want to be like that but I just feel like I have no real time to myself.
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Grubbyy · 07/06/2020 17:55
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