Ive been with my partner for 17 months we live together and have done for a year. My partner has a young child who stays over every other weekends and bank holidays myself and the child get on I don't do anything care wise apart from make food but that's just what I do for everyone.
his ex has a habit of trying to spoil things we went on holiday a few months ago and he would get phone calls asking for money in the middle of the night she knew we were away and their was a time difference. on our return she had sent child maintenance papers he was already paying.
This year was supposed to be Christmas with us but she made it all about her and didn't agree to her coming until late on Christmas Eve.
it has been quiet for the last few months we have just got engaged and she now says she is refusing contact because of me she has just accused me of hitting shouting and swearing at her child the only time I've ever told that child off is if she is about to hurt herself.
what she doesn't know is that I work with children and have regular DBS Checks and I'm a safeguarding officer. We know social services have been involved with her but not much we can do about that right now.
any advice what I can do as a step parent to be?
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Ex stopping contact because of me
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Bailsgd · 05/06/2020 11:51
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