I've fallen into the trap. I do absolutely everything when my step kids are here and I'm sick of it.
I do all of the cooking, I'm the one who asks them to tidy up after themselves, I entertain them, I wash their clothes, I ask them to get their pyjamas on, I ask them to brush their teeth, I asked them to get dressed in the morning and now I also look after them all day on my husbands days because he's working.
I'm starting to feel so resentful that I don't even want them to come anymore. I'm absolutely aware this is a husband issue and not the children though.
How do I get myself out of this hole without sounding like a wicked witch who doesn't want to 'help out'? I honestly feel like an actual mum when they are here and its not what I wanted.
I'm not working right now but husband is (outside of home) so this has given it even more ammunition that I do all of the house stuff including children related things.
I don't mind doing most but I feel like I'm just left to parent his kids 99% of the time and I'm starting to get bitter about it.
How can I reign this back in without looking petty?
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I do absolutely everything for my step kids and I'm sick of it
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DoneAsCanBe · 24/05/2020 14:55
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