Quick backstory...
- I'm a full-time stepmum to 4DC
- Ages G5, B8, B9, G12
- DSS 9 has ADHD and other issues
- Married DH under a year ago
- I moved from Manc to North Wales
- BM left them 5 years ago
- I'm now a SAHSM due to Covid19
- In middle of full house renovation
- DH is very supportive and loving
However.... I am not coping well now we've entered the 7th week of lockdown. I want to hide or scream into a pillow a lot of the time.
I love my SC so much... but I am finding their behaviour and attitude so hard to handle at times.
We live in a very small, overcrowded house (constantly covered in building dust) and there's no place to escape the constant noise, moaning and pestering.
Things that are irritating me most are:
- Their noise... Oh my life... their noise!!! We live remotely with no close neighbours, so they're used to being as loud as they want. But it's chuffin awful! Screaming, shouting so much! Tell them to be quiet and they don't/can't do it.
- Our children make a huge stubborn fuss when asked to do very simple chores and will often say no to doing them.
- My poor DSS 9 has a black cloud over his head and he sucks joy out of any situation. Constant moaning, sulking, anger, disrespectful to my DH, bullying my DSS 5.
- DSS 12 is avoiding doing the work that is set from school, saying that it's all optional and doesn't have to be completed.
I'm comfort eating to cope, stupidly. And I jump at every chance to do the weekly shop just to get out.
Does anyone have any advice on how I should approach this?
My DH says they're just being children and I'm doing well. But it's driving me crazy and I want to hide away.