Is this normal?
We have my step child 50/50 but the contact days change every week so I never have a clue what days they are staying (and most importantly, neither does DC).
I really do like my step child, we get on well. But I find myself feeling disappointed when DH mentions that he is staying that night.
I don't know why, I guess the dynamic is just different and I prefer the evenings when it's just me and H.
I'm struggling with various things at the moment mental health wise and I think part of it is because I have to put on a face when he is here if that makes sense? Like I have to just be happy step mum and crack on with things. Whereas when it's just me and DH I can come home and just collapse like I need to some days.
I do feel bad though, I find myself doing a little internal 'phew!' when DH says they aren't staying tonight/they are getting picked up soon.
It's not because he's a difficult child or anything. I just feel much calmer and less mentally drained when we're on our own.
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I can't wait for the times that me and DH are on our own
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JusticeApple · 12/03/2020 18:51
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