I have 2 DC with exH. We’ve been divorced 5 years ago. He’s been married for a couple of years to a lovely woman who my DC adore. She’s brilliant with them and I’m glad she’s in their life.
ExH was abusive and last year I had to go through court to stop him from continuing the abuse. Since then he’s kept to the word of the court order but has been finding other ways to prod me. One of them is telling the DC that they must call his wife ‘mum’, whereas previously they called her by her first name.
I find it very hurtful when they come home from their weekends with exH and his new family and talk about what they did with ‘mum’ or are asking about her on the phone. I’ve already got through the stage of them talking about having two mummies or their new mummy or their other mummy and just smiled and told them how lucky they were to have such a lovely step mummy, but this is for the long term. I’m just wondering how big of a deal it actually is before I tackle it. What do you step DC call you?
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SeasonallySnowyPeasant · 29/02/2020 12:09
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