Hi, I'm 17 weeks pregnant and still living at home due to my ex boyfriend kicking me out of the house we had together. Im looking for a new home but in the mean time Im living with my dad and stepmom. I'm so grateful that they've let me stay here with them until I've found somewhere but I'm starting to feel like my stepmom has doesn't like the fact im pregnant or getting along so well with my dad. She's constantly nagging him and bitching about me to him. Me and my dad went to the shop and I had my own basket full of stuff and my dad said he'd buy them, I told him it'd come to a tenner and I said I'd pay for them but he insisted. The next day my step mum must've looked at the receipt and realised that he had bought my stuff and she absolutely flipped but when it comes to her kids (who are much older than me) she buys them everything, brand new clothes, taxis everywhere, whatever food they want etc and it just annoys me. She moans when my dad picks me up from work on a Friday night as all my buses to where I live stop after a certain time and taxis are £10 so my dad offers to pick me up but whenever her kids come over she expects my dad to pick them up and drop them off or she buys their taxis. Even though her kids swear at her, talk to her like absolute shit and are horrible to her she still treats them like the world and treats me horrible even though I have never said a bad word to her while I've been living here. She moans if I've left a pan to soak or if I've left my coat on a chair but if you go into the kitchen, all her stuff is everywhere. She just doesn't stop moaning and bitching about me. I've got my gender reveal soon and none of my family have done anything to help with it but when it was my stepsisters gender reveal she was spending all sorts of money on her and buying the buffet food but won't allow my dad to help. She says I have to buy everything myself even if my dad offers and I'm just fed up with her. I don't expect them to buy me stuff but they know money has been tight this month due to work so a little bit of help with my gender reveal buffet would be nice as everyone else in the family gets help apart from me because of her. She's constantly starting arguments with my dad over me and I feel like I can never please her. I was very hormonal during my first trimester and there was this one time I was in the car with my dad coming back from work together and on way to pick her up. We picked her up and as soon as she got to the car she opened the front passenger seat where I was sat and threw my bag on the street and told me to get in the back. I refused jokingly and said we've only got a 2 mins drive from home so just sit in the back and she refused and undid my seatbelt and pulled me out. We got home and I went to my room and stayed there all night cos my emotions were bad and she knew how hormonal I was and I just burst out crying. Sorry it's so long, just needed a bit of a rant x
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