My SD is 13 , 14 in a few monyhs
I’ve been with her dad 7 years since she was 6 we’ve been married 5 years.
She lives with us but sees her BM a couple nights a week as her BM has some on off alcohol issues.
SD has always been a child that lies a lot her mother lies compulsively so we can see where she may pick up it’s okay to do this. We try talk to her what lying isn’t good.
She also won’t do anything I ask her l
Last week I asked her why won’t you do anything I ask she said as dad doesn’t disapline me ..... Yhis was a few days after I asked her to hoover my daughters hoover and she said no she’ll do it another day I said no please do it now she was like no, her dad stepped in and said she can do it another day. So he’s undermined me.
So he doesn’t punish her
Tonight she lied and he did nothing
He’s rewarding her letting her go to a friends party tomorrow and sleeping over !
I’ve had 3 daughters all older and they don’t lie like her and didn’t refuse to do what my husband or I asked.
Not sure what to do I’ve spoken to him a few time’s about this and he said he just wants a peaceful life
I do all her care washing cooking clearing up I buy all the food and pay all the bills and I simply aren’t allowed to parent her at all and he isn’t.
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My husband doesn't discipline his 13 year old
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meme70 · 15/02/2020 01:15
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