So , bit long and winded, please bare with me. My partners daughter who is 6yrs old stays every weekend with us and my 13 yr old daughter. When she's here she sees her grandparents ( they live apart), however the grand father is completely obsessed with her. I gind it unhealthy and unsettling . He is adamant that he sees her every time she's here ( which if fine) but he insists on having to always take her out alone with him,always. He won't listen when.we ask him not to buy her sweets or toys but he still does. Undermining may be but my gut doesn't feel right. If the child is in bath when he visits, I offer him.tea and seat in lounge l, but he refuses and just goes upstairs and sits outside bathroom until she's out , them goes into the bedroom where her dad is trying land dressing her and sits. My 13 year old is now opening up and saying she feels uncomfortable when he's in..also the 6 yr old said she only likes her grandpa when he buys her things. He never tells her no. 4 days after xmas he took her out alone again and bought her 2 new toys. No need. Please is this just me that feels so angry or is this totally normal. Any advice would be really appreciated.
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