I live with my DH and my two children from previous marriage. He has 3 children 2 only come in holidays due to location his 3rd EOW and time in holidays due to his working patterns.
On the whole he is a good man however we tend to argue regarding the DC particularly when his children stay. I don’t think he’s very good with them he’s very reluctant to tell them off and I have rules for my DC like help lay table must eat dinner or no pudding ect. He doesn’t seem to think the rules apply to his DC and I don’t think it’s fair hence the arguments. He lets his DCs get away with things that my two are not allowed. I’m finding it all frustrating and now just thinking I might as well keep my mouth shut. I feel I can’t say anything regarding his DC he just gets so defensive and switches it around. What do you all do and how do you manage to keep the peace and harmony. We love each other very much and he is a hard working man so I don’t really want to leave he isn’t abusive in anyway to me or my children.
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peonyfairy03 · 17/12/2019 22:23
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