I know I'm at risk of being torn apart, but long story short is I have a 10 yr old DSS. We've always had a good relationship and our time with him has always very much revolved around doing lovely things for him etc (days out, holidays etc etc).
I now have a newborn baby, and I resent that most weekends are spent essentially tagging on to activities purely for my DSS, which basically means i sit in cafes in trampoline/climbing centres with my baby or stay at home on our own. If we try to do things like stay in and play etc DSS becomes moody and rude saying he's bored etc.
It's the first time I've felt regret over being with someone with a previous child. I know its bad to say... but i really resent him and find myself dreading when we have him (which is about 50/50).
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mrnoballs · 23/11/2019 17:04
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