We live in Copenhagen, Denmark where property price is high and space at a premium. Currently my son (age 8) and my husband's 12 yr old twins (a boy and a girl) all share one big room. Not ideal but we manage.
We soon need to move house and are hoping to be able to buy a place. We would like all 3 children to have their own room but a 4-bed house is going to be hard to find. My son lives with us full-time and the twins half-half with their mum.
In my mind, it's always been a given that my son would be given priority for a larger room in any new house.. he has more toys, stuff etc and it's his only home. I've just discovered that my husband feels really strongly that the children must all have the same amount of space, even though two of those rooms will be use only 50% of the time. He thinks the time distribution is irrelevant.
Any thoughts/ advice? We're still in the realm of theory but I'm shocked to find out he thinks I'm being unreasonable...am I?
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MamainDenmark · 25/09/2019 22:13
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