I don't know where was the best place to post this but my partner has two children with his ex (never married) and we have a 6 month old daughter together. He sees them twice a week and has them over night over the weekend once a month. He really wants us all to meet up and go on a day date together like take them to soft play so all the kids can meet (I have a six year old from previous relationship ship so a very blended family😂) but she won't allow it as we are "unstable". We are not, we are engaged and happy and during the pregnancy things were not great but partly because I found out she was screen shotting my private social media and putting stuff in his head. She also uses my mental health against me as I have depression and anxiety and I'm not safe to be around the kids 🙄 we have met up and talked (me and her) and everything was civil. We have been to get legal advice and they advised mediation.
My ex is really not happy and he just wants all of us to get a long and for everyone to meet. I can see her point of view but I can also see his, feel like I'm a bit stuck in the middle and was wondering if anyone else has been through anything similar to this?
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Climbmountains911 · 09/09/2019 14:16
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