My stepson absolutely hates me, his dad and I have no idea why but when asked he just says that he hates me, and he will never have a relationship with me as I am insignificant to him. His mother constantly criticised me, bitched about me, called me the c-word and that I am getting everything she should be entitled to . She has also called my children names and they are ugly fat bastards and that they will never amount to anything.
My step son is not allowed in our home because of his behaviour towards me.
He has never had a good relationship with his dad since his parents split up because according to his mother his dad left him, and she has poisoned his mind and that if his dad he really loved him then his dad would still be together with his mum.My partners son will only contact his dad if he wants a lift somewhere or money, nothing else.
Yesterday he phoned his dad he wanted both a lift and money so my partner went and picked him up and gave him some money (he is 18) it also took him an hour and a half, when my partner got back he said that he would have to pick up his son when he has finished at the place he was at but didn’t know what time or how late, we had a rare afternoon/evening without my kids, my son was also at the same event and my son was getting a cab back as step son will not even acknowledge my son now although they knew each other before. My partner was not allowed to give my son a lift as my partner should only care about his own son
I got cross and said for fuck sake, (we had planned to go to the coast but of course we could not because partner was on stand by for his grown adult child)
My partner got really angry and walked out of the house, didn’t take any calls and has gone back to his house.
We can not go on like this and I am not sure that this relationship can continue with his son placed above everyone else’s needs, and we all have to change plans when he wants a lift etc.
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Teenangels · 26/08/2019 14:13
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