Hi
Has anyone been through this that can help me?
DH and his ex currently in court re contact arrangements for their 2 DD's
There has been someone appointed by the court to speak to kids to gain their thoughts and wishes on the situation, and what they want to happen.
It was supposed to be happening today. DH got a phone call tho to say it's now been pushed back to next Friday
The original letter said it would only be his eldest that would be interviewed, she is 12, and that the person from the court would be non biased towards him or his ex, and that his daughter would be spoken to both here and at her mums.
He then got a letter last Friday saying that when they went to their mums today, they would now be speaking to both girls, instead of just the eldest
This morning, he got a phone call to say that the interviews had been pushed back to next Friday, and instead of them being spoken to both here and at their mums, they would now o my be spoken to at their mums
We are really struggling to get them to come for contact just now, and DH is really upset my it all. We both feel his youngest is too young to be put through this. She is only 8
Is this all normal?
Why would they suddenly push the interview back and decide to just do it at mums instead of at both houses?
What normally happens at these interviews?
Does anyone know what kind of questions they will be asked?
Sorry for all the questions, but I have a great relationship with my daughters dad and my sons dad has sadly passed away, so I have absolutely no experience of any of this and neither has DH.
He is worried sick about it all and just wants it over
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pauline987 · 08/08/2019 20:43
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