Dh and his ex partner have an amicable relationship. There's never been any fighting or taking badly about the other parent so she isn't awful..however.
She absolutely will not parent her daughter it will always fall to dh. If things go bad at her mums she's on the phone wanting dh to be the bad cop.
Dh shares care, we live close by and as dsd is almost 16 arrangements are flexible. Dsd has no self control, is rude, abusive and aggressive. Dh is always told he needs to deal with it because she's 'too weak' "I can't stand up too her" simper simper.
Dsd is getting progressively more aggressive and Dh and I are left to deal with this shit because her mother won't co parent.
She only tells Dh what she thinks she should ie today she was in isolation for disrupting the class (again) but dh only just found out when she knew because the school emailed her. He's always in the dark which leaves him on the back foot.
I am so sick of her piss poor parenting and dh being left to deal with her behaviour. Just needed to vent. It's none of my business but I feel for my dh he has a tough job.
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QueenOfIce · 05/07/2019 16:50
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