Ahhhh here goes..... so I met my husband at work we had been great friends for 4 years and then one day something clicked and we became inseparable. We got married 10 months later. I have 2 boys from previous relationship and he has 1 daughter and 1 son from two separate mothers. One of the mothers is that ok ish and the other is just not. My children are 8&11 and his are 3&9 the youngest boy keeps swearing constantly and is so demanding it's causing us to argue. Yesterday he said F**K you followed by my husbands name. I was in shock. I sat him in time out for 3 mins and when time was up I got to his level and I explained that it's unacceptable to use words like that in our home. But still made no difference at all and he continued to say swear words. It's nothing he has heard in our home I'm very aware of what is said. I would hate to have my own children swear and I treat them all the same. However this morning was a huge to do infront of his daughter and son because I asked him to be quiet at 7am and everyone else was asleep. I should mention we live in a one bedroom flat. The boys have the bedroom and his daughter sleeps on our mattress on the living room floor and I sleep on the sofa. Cosy I know!!! His daughter is extremely mollycoddled and will follow us everywhere.... even the bathroom! Now bare in mind it's a one bed flat!!! So I asked the son to be quiet and my husband tells me off telling me I'm rude infront of his daughter amd son and got them ready and stormed out. His son constantly has to be centre of attention and I'm ok with that. His mum has a high flying job and he is in nursery 52.5 hours a week. So he's being brought up by the nursery basically and they find him funny! Am I wrong? I can seriously take it if I am! I just feel very upset for being shouted at and I also feel that now he has done that I now have no say in future because they will no that they can do what suits and I'll get in trouble.
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