Hi everyone,
I don’t really know where to go for advice hoping someone on here can help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for the past year. He has two children aged 4 and 5. I didn’t really want to be with someone with kids as really wanted my own but they are a package and I love him. The problem is that he only works part time in his job 4 days a week and has the youngest child on a Friday all day. He can’t afford to contribute to any bills or food as he says he has no money. We have gone over his income and expenditure a few times and he only has around £80 left a month. I rent my house and he lives here full time and the kids one night a week. I’m starting to get a bit resentful that he lives here for free and doesn’t pay anything but has offered to give the kids mum extra maintenance when the youngest starts school in sep and he takes an extra day at work. This upset me a lot as he offered to give her more money but can’t give me anything.
Am I stupid to carry on ?
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lisabarnett236 · 07/06/2019 19:53
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