I am willing to accept I am possibly being a bit unreasonable here and I may just need a rant.
Have had DSDs for 3 days.
I do get on with them and we do have a laugh and I love them (I have been around for 10 years) but it’s DH tip toeing around discipline and boundaries which is winding me up.
With my kids (who are all older now and two have left home - one still here aged 17) I always had clear, fair boundaries and expectations and DH was a very stern with them and OTT and interfered when he didn’t need to (I had brought them up alone for 10 years before we met so I was perfectly capable).
If we go anywhere the girls constantly shove each other rather than walking. If they are left alone for any period of time they fall out, today this resulted in a dining room chair being damaged after I had asked them to stop.
DSD1 gets up every morning earlier than everyone else and stomps down the stairs and crashes about in the kitchen making herself porridge leaving an absolute mess (she puts chocolate spread in the porridge and got it over the door frame of the living room, on the kitchen cupboard, side, hallway, kitchen and dining room floors).
DSD2 spilt black current squash all down the kitchen drawers (in the drawer) and all over the side twice and left it.
We got through 8 pints of milk in the first two days and a 1/2 kg of sugar because DH let’s DSD1 have unlimited cups of tea 10 toilet rolls and 250ml bottle of shower gel through two showers each.
To me this is excessive - the waste disposal unit was also damaged by a piece of plastic being shoved down there (although DH says this wasn’t them).
ARGH - and breath.
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I am sick of putting in the boundaries
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Iamnotagoddess · 06/05/2019 16:39
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