I'm nothing but kind to my DHs daughter.Get on with her really well, have a good laugh together, make her feel welcome etc.
I also like to think I've never once over stepped a boundary with his exW either. Always very polite and friendly at drop off / pick up, never interfere or stick my nose in, or turn up at events or birthday parties etc.. (why would I?) And yet I still feel like I can't do anything right.
Weekend before last, DH had to run an errand and asked if I'd just watch his DD for an hour I said yes of course not thinking anything of it.
Now DH has received a load of abuse saying how dare he leave them with me, she is not my child, how exW doesn't even know me etc etc.
I feel like just giving up. I'm a good person, I've welcomed his children with open arms and been nothing but nice. I'm not trying to play mum, I've no interest in that and I've never done anything to suggest that either.
AIBU to think you just can't set a foot right sometimes? It's honestly put me off ever offering to help again. I don't want drama, I've done my bloody best to avoid it.
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WhatTheHellIsGoingOnn · 29/04/2019 19:07
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