Hi
I’ve posted on here a fair bit but named changed (just in case DP’s ex comes here ever)
Not looking for advice. Just a rant really.
My DP had a call from his daughter this week. Highly unusual! And so he was delighted to answer but she was just calling to say ‘I don’t want to stay with you. Bye bye’
He could hear her mum telling her what to say in the background. She’s 5.
It’s entirely feasible she said something like that to her mum as she often says to us ‘I want to stay here forever’ and then five minutes later will ask ‘how many more sleeps before I go to mum’s?’ We would never dream of exploiting when she says ‘I want to be here forever’. We just try to help her understand her rhythm and make the most of it and cope with the harder parts of it.
My poor DP’s heart is breaking to see his daughter controlled like that. My heart is breaking for both of them.
Ill be signing the parental alienation survey.
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Loupyloula · 20/04/2019 08:56
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