18yo stepson is earning a couple of hundred quid a week cash in hand as a builders casual labourer. His mum has lost her tax credits and child benefit for him and I never had either in the first place. I have no idea whether he gives her anything for his keep and I don't get anything from him for food. He squanders it on phones and clothes and stuff. The new clothes get ruined in a day cos he wears them to work.
So, when he tells me he is going out (he didn't work all day and spend most of the day in bed) but he is coming back for tea, and then phones AFTER I had sorted out something for everyone including him to eat AND I have started cooking it, to tell me, No, he isn't having tea now, it makes me want to SCREAM and punch something. He really pisses me off.