So partner and I have recently split and I'm not sure what to do about his children?
We were together just over 3 years and was involved a lot as he has 50 50 custody. Now we've split I'm unsure about contact or what I should be doing for the best!?
Ex hasn't told the kids (protecting them for now I guess) so at the moment we're trying to keep things as normal as possible for them but I'm unsure how long we should be doing this for or if this is the right thing to do?
I don't want to just disappear from their lives as that's what a couple of mums boyfriends have done and the eldest has made comment about this. I don't want to be another person that's upd and left, if you see what I mean? They're both questioning where I am when they are at Dads and I don't know what to do for the best
Has anyone had experience of this or any advice please?
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WinterIsHere1990 · 19/02/2019 09:15
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