So here’s the situation,
My partner and I have been best friends for over 2 years, and together for just over 6 months. He has a 10 year old son from a previous relationship, that ended a couple months before we got together.
My partner and I are in the process of moving in together, but his ex and the mother of his child is refusing to let me meet his son.
Not only is she letting me not meet his son, but she’s stalking my social media, putting posts up about me and being really nasty and personal on her social media about me and her ex.
Boyfriends son [redacted] now knows about me because my boyfriend told him as he was the only one who didn’t know!
He was so happy for his dad, and straight away was asking to meet me - but he’s not allowed as his mum has said no!
My boyfriend has 50/50 custody - and in fact has [redacted] more than the mother - and the mother has had a parade of men in the 8 months they have been broken up - all of whom have met [redacted]!!!
Every time my boyfriend brings up me meeting him, or saying it’s going to happen she threatens to take him to court or stop access!!’
I don’t know how we can fix this, and how to stop her doing it.
I’m also 3 months pregnant, and the stress of not being able to meet the other most important person in my boyfriends life is unbearable!!
Should I reach out to her? She is refusing to meet me, and has called me so many horrible names and made judgments about myself and my family!
*This post was edited by MNHQ
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Babymamadrama24 · 29/01/2019 14:34
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