Hello, how do you guys split the load? I'm rtw next week and baby is 7 months old, I'm going back to work early as I'm earn more so can't cope without me at work.
Baby sleep is a nightmare still despite HV help and he's up four times in the night , his last wake at four ish am sees him up for two or three hours before settling again.
The current plan is baby will go to childminder one day, with dp (self employed) two days and then with me rest of the week. This was agreed when I was preganbt. Im doing compressed hours so three very long days.
Dp seems to think that I should continue to do all the night feeds/wakings every day of the week despite rtw. I feel we should split it so on days he is not working he should do them and I will do the rest. He dosnt think he should as he has school run on those day for his other children (baby will be going with him) and wants to do some extra work at night on days he has the baby. I can't just lie in like he can if he chosen and move my hours around which he does do, mine are fixed and I have to work when scheduled.
Is it normal to expect night waking to be split when rtw?
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Spanglyprincess1 · 28/01/2019 09:12
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Gemmalindley ·
01/02/2019 17:00
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