Checking to see if i am overreacting or not and slightly scared of AIBU!
I have three dcs, my eldest 2 are my DH step children. Not sure if its relevant but he has full parental responsibility for them. When dc3 was born 3 years ago we had a lot of issues with the ex insisting the dc1+2 referred to dc3 as a half sibling not a sibling.
Ex remarried last year and his new partner changed his mind. DC1+2 now have a step mother and step siblings but neither family use step or half to define relationships. DC1+2 have a nickname for my husband and step-mum and we all work hard on making sure the dcs see us all as a family. I recognise i'm lucky to be able to do this and am incredibly blessed with step mum. Dc1 is autistic and dc2 has anxiety and attachment issues so this sense of family and belonging is really important.
My dad came round for tea and explained to the dcs a new scientific paper he has read that proves the genes matter more than nuture and only the people directly related to you are therefore family or have any part in influencing your personality . I countered it but he was insistent.
Am i overreacting to be utterly mad about this? I have spoken to dc1+2 and they were both a bit taken aback but seemed OK. I have also warned step mum as i suspect dc2 is going to have yet another insecure episode where she lashes out at everyone. We had just bloody reached a point of stability.
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CuckooSings · 24/01/2019 11:14
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