Hi, can I ask what is the convention for pick up / drop off for contact.
Basically - NRP had child removed by social care and put with other parent due to various issues.
NRP does not pay maintenance at all although is working for minimum wage and does a second job for approx £65 a week.
NRP sees child two weekends a month - by NRP choice (there is a safety plan in place put there by social care). NRP flatly refuses to pay maintenance or contribute to child’s clothing. Previously the parent who now has care contributed £200 a month Maintenance and paid for school trips/clothes. Also saw the child three days a week.
Now NRP has offered the princely sum of £7 a week maintenance but would like RP to drop off for contact and they will return the child. Currently the NRP reluctantly picks up and drops off the twice a month that there is contract. There have been occasions where the NRP has demanded the RP Collects the child otherwise the child will not be returned - but RP has threatened to phone social care and the NRP has bought back. The distance is around 30 miles each way.
The child is ambivalent about contact but is encouraged to maintain the relationship with the other parent.
The child is usually returned at 6.30pm on a Sunday with a bag full of dirty school clothes (is picked up from school Fridays) and has not been given dinner. Apparently the NRP has bought clothes, but these have to remain at the NRP residence.
Is the convention, when the child is only being seen four days a month over 2 visits for the NRP to arrange the transport? What do other people do?
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Rhinosaurus · 10/01/2019 07:05
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