My 1 year old daughter is quite intelligent for her age I’ve been told by other people. This seems to be making my step daughter jealous. A few times when us, grandparents, etc on both sides have said how clever the baby is, my step daughter has turned around and said ‘well she’d better not be as intelligent as me’ in a kind of jokey but not way.
When the baby was a bit younger and she’d cross baby milestones like walk, eat for the first time, etc she would say ‘oh I did that at such a such age didn’t i’ making a reference that she was younger and therefore better. She’s 15 btw so not exactly a baby herself by any means.
Also, She normally stays at her mums xmas eve and comes to us xmas day in the evening but this year her mum has told her she can come to ours xmas eve if she wants but she originally said she wouldn’t as she feels guilty leaving her mum on her own. However, now she’s said coming xmas eve this year to see the baby open up her xmas presents but she wants dropping by off at her mums for 10am xmas day so she can have breakfast with her mum. The baby most days doesn’t wake up till half 9 anyway. I find this a little strange.
Should this be a worrying scenario for us or is it just usual teenage stuff? We have tried including her in everything that we do btw, we never leave her out of holidays, she has the bigger room out of kids room, and since the babies birth she’s decided to come every week instead of eow so she’s here a lot more too.
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timelord92 · 27/10/2018 11:30
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