I don't think I'm in a healthy relationship and I need some support. My partners called me horrible names because I called his son a druggie. He called me a vile c..t and fat. He says I'm unkind, uncaring and uncompassionate. A vile person. In return I've said terrible things about his kids. I feel like my self worth is really low. He told me to F off Sunday evening because I got fed up of him checking his phone for texts from the ex wife as his son had been beaten up for owing money. They have labelled his son 'autistic' but I think this is just an excuse for bad parenting. If his son can walk to his dad's work and ask for money surely he can go to school. I thought at 14 and 15 the kids would be able to communicate directly with their dad but he said with his son having educational needs he needs to communicate with his ex wife. She texts a lot. I've got so much to lose if we break up but should I keep trying to work through this difficult stage? I feel like we are not supporting each other. He tells me I'm a terrible step parent and that I don't care. In arguments I feel he tries to provoke a reaction from me.
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