Hi all
Just looking for a bit of advice my DSD lives full time with my partner and I, her BM sadly died when she was 2 she’s now 7. Following her mother’s death her BM’s parents tried to get full custody of DSD, taking my DP to court and it finally ended via a mediator talking some sense into them and we now have an informal agreement that they have DSD twice a week over night and one weekend a month. Whilst we are happy with this arrangement and have no desire to change it as we now have a bio son we don’t want to run the risk that should anything happen to DP they would try to take her from me.
Simply to protect our family unit and because we are unmarried the only way to ensure this is to go down to adoption route.
So my question is - how long does this process take? And any tips on how to handle gparents? Added footnote is grandmother is very anxious and can be quite controlling so we fear drama!
Thanks x
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Mummabear1992 · 05/09/2018 15:28
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