Partners ex messaged out of blue she will be dropping kids here next week (first time ever since we moved nine months ago) and wants to agree next year's contact calander. I don't want her in my house.
For background, I've never been in her house. I have a newborn baby who is very fretful at the momment and will have the three step children here too. After baby was born she said some vile things in frot of the DSC while on Skype to my partner about bbay not being family and I am livid about it. He is their half brother and I would never dream of saying that to the dsc, they are all family and very much loved. After this I refused any contact with her until I got an apology ( will never happen). Dp said i was making his life difficult but I said I normaly dont take things to heart but this has offended me deeply and I'm not willing to have contact with someone who behaves that way.
Aibu to say to dp that she isn't welcome in the house ( I havnt raised it yet but he knows I'm unhappy)? They can go and sort the calander in the pub and I'm happy to care for the kids while they do or they can sort it be email as they have done for the last five years but I don't want her in my home.
Thought a mn poll of opinions might help me see if I'm being rational or not.
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Spanglyprincess1 · 05/08/2018 00:32
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