Hello all, not sure if I'm looking for advice or to vent really. Been with my hubby 6 years, he has a son from a previous relationship and we have a child together. I have always been close to SS but recently things have got messy. Myself and my hubby went out after bedtime but let the kids stay up to play with my friend while babysitting, when SS messaged his mum saying he was being treated like rubbish as my pre schooler had a programme she liked on. This resulted in the ex wife sending abusive texts to my hubby which quickly escalated to her abusing me! Silly f@t bi@ch wife. So I lost my cool and went to hers to question what I had done to deserve that as I have always treated SS equally to my child. This resulted in her calling my child ugly and explaining that she could have my hubby if she wanted. This is very strange to me as they were long split when I met him but when I started questioning she upped the attack screaming me down for stopping her son walking in our bedroom in the night which I think is perfectly acceptable as he is 9 and there are things he shouldn't see. She attempted to absolutely ruin me and clearly cause an impact to my relationship but that hasn't worked as I see her as a childish, jealous and petty woman but now I feel awkward with my SS. I don't want to have anything to do with him as he is running to his mum when he doesn't get his own way and his mum even said my daughter should be my hubby/her dad's last priority when her son is there which is insane! I'm going to take my daughter away this weekend to stay out of SS's way but hubby is mad but I don't want to walk in to that situation again as I'm extremely surprised I didn't lose my cool with the women when she called my child ugly! I feel like I should stay away from my house when SS is there and we have joint custody and a pre schooler, what the hell should I do?
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