She seems to get a twisted pleasure from it too. So they have 2 children and they stay overnight with us fortnightly. We live 2 hours away and do all pick ups and drops offs.
Anyhow, a couple of months ago she said we should start being more reasonable to each other and do one another favours. This started with her stealing one of DH’s weekends to take the kids on holiday! She then kicked off when he wouldn’t have them the following weekend (her normal weekend) as we had booked and paid for ourselves To go away 4 months ago as it’s our child free time.
So, back to the ‘favours’. We are taking his children plus mine abroad on the Wednesday following his normal weekend. DH contacted her and said that as we are being more flexible now, he would collect them on the Tuesday night and have them for 10 days. She has kicked off at this calling him a shit dad etc. Basically, the favours only work in her direction then. Technically the kids COULD come on that weekend but it’s a 200 mile round trip for them (400 for DH) only to be repeated 2 days later and in this weather that’s not pleasant.
To add onto this, she says she is contacting the CMS to get the shared care element removed due to one missed weekend (where SHE took the kids on holiday) and this other weekend where we are proposing having the kids for 10 days instead of 2. Basically just moving the weekend back by a couple of days.
My husband is so stressed and i’m worried about him. Got no one else to talk to about this 😥
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MismatchedStripySocks · 10/07/2018 09:51
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