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Tomorrow evening is the prize giving night at DSS's school. DSS (age 11) will be given a prize as the deputy head boy so it's quite an important night for him. We are all very happy and are proud of him. DH (we recently got married after being together for over 3 years) wanted me to attend the ceremony, as "you are part of the family". I told him that it is probably not a good idea as his ExW would hate to see me there.
DH sent a text message to ExW and no surprise, she replied something like if I am going, she is not going and won't allow DSD (age 6) to attend as well (DSS and DSD go to the same school), and she added: "you'd better ask your son what he wants".
DH learnt from DSS last weekend that ExW has been pressuring him by saying how much she didn't want me to attend. DSS however replied, both to his mum and DH: "I want all of you to come". It was very nice of him to say so. I have a very good relationship with both kids and helped DSS tremendously with his 11+ exam by providing math tutoring almost every weekend for the past 2 years. DSS is moving in with us for his middle school in this September.
DH thus talked to ExW again via phone and this time she went completely mad, threatening that if I dare to show up, "she'd better prepare a change of clothes" (she threw a cup of orange juice at me previously) and worse......when DH told her that police may get involved if she does that, she yelled "just call the police, just call them!"
DH is very disappointed and annoyed as he knows that I would prefer to avoid any drama, either in private or in public, but on the other hand, he felt like we shouldn't be intimated by ExW as I will inevitably play a more and more important role in DSS's life. I feel very sorry for DSS as I know that he wants me to go and his mum is willing to embarrass him in front of the whole school just because she feels like she will "lose face" in front of some mums. (do ppl really care about your own business???)
Anyway, don't even know why I posted this. Maybe just finding some place to complain a little bit. Thanks for listening.
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user1487168313 · 03/07/2018 16:08
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