I just feel my dp didn't deal with it particularly well.
Dp was at work, dinner was ready so I did the usual thing of calling the kids to come down for dinner. Dsd (12) said she wasn't coming down because she was doing her make up and then taking pictures, I said well could you do that after because it's ready now and it will go cold. She rolled her eyes and said 'I don't care, I don't want it and I'm staying here' so I just said right and closed the door. I told dp when he got home, so with me present told her off for being rude and ungrateful made her apologise, I was happy to leave it there but then she stomped upstairs and shouted bitch 😳, my dd and ds heard it and were very protective of me, asking if I was ok etc. Dp did go to speak to her, not really sure what he said to her. I just ignored her for the rest of the evening and stayed out of her way, so did my dcs but dp was back to being all nice to her after 5 minutes, joking around with her.
The following day I decided to let it go and it was the past but she was rude and funny with me all day. It was hard to say anything as dp mum was there all the kids etc but dp doesn't seem to notice and if I mention anything he just says oh no it wasn't at you that comment, it gets on my nerves as clearly it was and my dd noticed too. I don't know what to do? The problem is you end up being the evil step mother if you do or say too much 😤
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easylover · 03/07/2018 13:30
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