Not sure if I can care for my DSD-7yo all day for the entire summer.
Feel terribly guilty to not facilitate DH spending evenings and weekends with his DD...
The issues; no DCs of my own so feeling very intimidated, DH works full time plus commute so a lot of time to fill-need practical advice, what do we do all day for 6 weeks!?
&furious at DH how this situation came about>
Recently married DH and relocated. Briefly discussed with DSDs mother having her longer than EOW, totally great by me, only assumed he would be taking time of work to facilitate.
HE assumed as I work from home I would just have his DD all day, without even asking me. Plus he agreed to this with Ex without telling me, and didn’t let her contact or meet me so she could check herself if this was all ok. Next bombshell was that he was having her arrive in a few hours !
Had DSD for a week so far, she is v happy but Im still feeling overwhelmed. So invited DSD’s mother over with us (and DH). So grateful for how reasonable and understanding she is. many positives to her trusting me with her DD, however having her or not is now up to me, is it childish of me to not wanting to decide where she spends her summer?
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CaliSimple · 15/06/2018 05:32
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