Can I ask when you have your child weekends, do you have all the kids together as one big family or do you spend time with your respective DC's separately, occasionally meeting up together.
DP thinks we should all be together, all the time. I'm not so keen, there's invariably bickering about finances, who pays for what for who, they stay at my house because I have more room, so I normally pay the lion share of the food bill, and who does the cleaning and tidying and clothes washing (always me!) disagreements on whether and how the DC's should be told off or not, disagreements between the children which inturn cause arguments between my DP and me. I also feel I want to spend time with my DC's alone and I think he should too with his. Am I wrong? We don't have to be one big happy family do we? What do you all do? (been together 18 months, 4 kids (2 each) range from 6 - 13)
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stalemate101 · 31/05/2018 16:20
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