Hi all, this whole step-parenting thing is totally new to me. Apologies if this has been discussed before, but I just signed up.
I've met the most wonderful man who I'd love to share the rest of my life with. He has a 12-year-old son who I get along with quite well. I'll call the dad and son John and Mark to make the story easier to follow.
The biggest source of arguments between John and me is Mark. The kid lives on McDonalds, plays on his games console incessantly, sometimes all day, doesn't do his homework, rarely has a bath or cleans his teeth, and can be pretty rude and disrespectful to his dad. John runs up and down stairs with drinks, crisps, cake, anything Mark shouts down for.
My daughter wasn't brought up this way, and I'm finding it almost impossible to live in a house where a child, IMHO, is being neglected out of love. John totally adores his child and would do anything to make him happy.
Should I step back and butt out? If I do I feel like I'm doing Mark a real disservice. I think I've made a small difference: last week Mark ate a home-cooked meal twice and did half a maths homework. He's a lovely child underneath all the bluster, and I'd be sad if he didn't grow up healthy and well-adjusted because of things we didn't do for him.
Or else I'm just an interfering old bat. I'm not sure which, and I'd love your honest opinion.
Cheers, Frex
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