As a step parent when you have your dscs?
I'm not talking about issues with ex's or any of that crap. I'm talking about when your step children are actually staying in your home for however long....
Which part do you find hardest?
For me it's without a doubt the mess. My dcs are fairly tidy (by no means angels though) but when dss is here, he gets everything out constantly. I have become firmer with him lately and it's working. He makes a mess then refuses to tidy it. I wasn't putting up with it any longer and now it's getting there.
Also, the attention has to be on him all of the time. He can't stand anything being about my dcs or his sister.
No problems really with dsd, she's older but it does bug me when she helps herself to chocolate type snacks without asking. That's a petty one though really. Just sometimes I buy treats for everyone but someone misses out (usually me) cos she's had more than one.
Suppose they are all petty really.
Also do you ever think as a step mum, how although your step children can annoy you, your other half lives with your kids all the time? So why do we have the right to moan? Surely step dads feel the same?
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hellsb8 · 14/04/2018 13:47
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