My partner is ending our relationship because of his children. His ex-wife is a therapist with BPD borderline personality disorder and she controls all of them. He says he is fed up that I can't be more involved with parenting and that my big sister approach is not enough.
I feel pushed back by them and think that the ex is bad mouthing me and him. He doesn't believe my observations. He is a very gullible person and can't see any of this. He is now saying altgough he is very happy with me he thinks he needs to end the relationship. His ex has always treated him like a servant and I think she just wants him to be more available. At the same time she lives in the family house with a new boyfriend - she was the one who first started seeing other people.
I find it all so terribly sad.
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My partner is ending our relationship because of his children.
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sallysally1974 · 07/04/2018 18:46
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