We work from home my 13 year old sees lots friends and so when’s she’s home I’ll soend time with her as much as she wants but rbh she’s very grown up and isn’t wanting lots mom attention anymore.
My SD 11 comes to us 3 days a week her dad my sh works the whole time she’s here atm it’s 11 am I have said he should place her in childcare she would be happier and it’s unfair in her just sitting around. The house all day - he won’t take anytime off but all he says is he’ll play the wii for an hour that’ll keep her happy
I can’t spend all my time with her when my daughters not here otherwise I get no work done and I do everything around the house - DH doesn’t see how important spending time with his child is , he only had her I’ve had 3 children and worked and made sure I spent quality time with them if I couldn’t as work I’d book professional childcare so they’d have things to do.
I’m sure he simply doesn’t w at to pay for childcare I know she’s 11 but she doesn’t really have many friends and no family except us and her Mum and half sister so she comes to see her dad but he’s putting work first all the time - I do soend time with her but she’s very miserable as he won’t soend much time with her and I have told him it needs to change but nothing is.
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