Bit of background, I have 2 DC from STBXH, we have an arrangement in place for children to stay with him regularly, we have both kept it up and the DC have a good relationship with both of us and both sides of family - we both have made sure of this. I can't stand him but the DC would never know, we are only positive about each other in front of DC. The DC have stability and routine with both of us.
Divorce is currently being processed and we are nearly at an agreement with splitting of assess etc. We split last August after being unhappy for 2 years in a loveless marriage.
I met my new Partner in January this year, wasn't looking to meet anyone but life happens...! We are both in a similar situation with divorce etc and he has 3 DC.
We have agreed not to rush and enjoy each other's company and build a good foundation for a relationship, and we know not to rush meeting each other's children, but we have just had a talk and despite the short time we have been together we both feel that we both want something long term with each other. He's met my family and I've met his, and it's just been a good experience throughout.
Although we know it's no rush, I am new to all this and was wondering if there was a right time to introduce a new partner? It would be nice to hear others experiences of this! Also, I was planning on telling my ex. Before I did anything like this, and would slowly introduce him to my DC.
Any insight would be appreciated! X
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sparklingstrawberry · 16/03/2018 18:18
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