My daughters dad has never been in her life so it has always been me and her.
I have now met a new partner and although she loves him, she will not leave us in a room together on our own, or let us be next to each other, to the point where she will sit in between us, everywhere, won’t let us touch etc
This is proving VERY difficult at bedtime if he stays over, meaning a stand off and physical battle until the early hours of the morning with a very stubborn 9 year old.
I have tried the usual forms of punishment (taking phone/iPad/luxury items off her) I have also tried offering rewards for going to bed properly. None seem to work. To the point where she kicks and screams and screams an ungodly scene for hours on end. I have also laid with her until she falls asleep (she wakes up and comes back in)
She loves my new partner, and has even asked if he can be her dad. But I just can’t see why we can’t be alone together.
If anyone has any advice, tips on dealing with it and forms of punishment reward to try, it would be gratefully appreciated.
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Daughter won’t let new boyfriend near me
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Alexandraema · 07/03/2018 14:11
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