I have two step daughters, and 3 other children, two with my current partner of 11 years. my eldest step daughter who is also the eldest child by 3 weeks has become a complete nightmare. My step daughters both came to live with us 7 years ago after their alcoholic mother attempted suicide for the 2nd time. A court issued my partner with a residence order and told his ex to get counselling and herself out. We got counselling for the two girls and have had a family support worker and all manner of counsellors etc. My younger step daughter can be a pain like all kids so nothing over the top there. I get little support from her father who works nights. Shes lied about me in the past to the point the police and social services have been involved. They realised she was lying when her story changed several times. I know shes hurt and angry and their mother has only just started having regular contact with them now unsupervised. My step daughter is still lying about me, stealing, being rude and cheeky, refusing to behave and do what i have asked her to do. I have told my partner that she should now go to live with her mother and that I cannot look after her anymore. I ended up on anti depressants, shes run away from home and theres probably loads more. Dos anyone know what my rights are? I want to refuse to have her as its too much stress and my other children are being affected by it all, especially my two year old. I wanted to call social services and explain it to them but after one social worker made things up about me and my parter (she got the sack, we werent the only couple she had done this to) i am not keen to get them involved. If I take her to her moms and tell her mom that I dont want her back, I dont have to do i? Her dad feels its best she stays with her mom too as that is what she wants.
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