Hi, I’m new to this (step)mothering thing and don’t know how to go about it, I don’t have children of my own (not until September at least! Haha) my partner’s daughter is lovely she’s embraced me so well and we love having her fortnightly there’s just a few things that really bug me and I’m not sure if it’s because I’ve found out I’m pregnant and it’s somehow changed my mind on her behaviour. I used to think it was cute and funny but I find myself getting worked up about it now.
She’s 9 and interrupts constantly, whether we are in the middle of a conversation, task or even in the middle of responding to her, besides this she non stop talks. Like I mean non stop, even when she’s not talking ‘to us’ she’s just talking it’s like a run by run of every single thing. She doesn’t seem capable of entertaining herself at all unless it’s YouTube, it’s so exhausting! It’s to a point we don’t get any space to ourselves or each other over the weekends when she’s here and I’m wondering how it’ll be when we have a demanding little baby plys a 9 year old that acts more like a toddler. My partner and I are affectionate towards each other but not over the top, anytime we kiss (even if it’s a peck goodbye) she then yells “HEY!” And demands that he kiss her however many times we did.
I don’t know what to say to her when she does these things, can anyone suggest anything? I don’t want to be horrid and I’m conscious of her feelings but it’s also driving me batty and I don’t believe it to be normal behaviour for a child of her age to display. X
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Hellofreckles · 10/01/2018 16:52
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