So I had a baby with my ex whom we split before she was born she is now 3 years old and her dad has been in and out of her life, I was pressured at the time as well as being young to put him on the birth certificate which I did, when my daughter was 3 months old I met the love of life which I never expected I would, 3 years on we are pregnant with our second, he has called my daughter his own, his family have welcomed us with open arms as their own, and we are all excited for the future. My daughters real dad has not seen her for over a year before and now after seeing her a few times has not bothered with her for over 4 months. I just want to know if In the future we can possibly change my daughters last name from mine to my partners name as our second child will have his name without her real dads consent as he is on the birth certificate. My partner also hopes at some stage to adopt my daughter. But I don’t know if all of this is possible with my ex dead beat dad being on her birth certificate although he is not in her life and is very abusive to me still after so many years. My daughter thinks of him as a stranger, one of mummy’s friends which was so sad to hear.
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