Hi all
Im writing this and asking opinion.
I split with my ex and father of my children 6 years ago. I ended the relationship after 10 years.
My ex has never accepted this, and rather than, try and stay positive with the kids, he has manipulated them, into his own self pitty.
Anyway my son decided he wanted to live with his dad. Which broke my heart but i just assured him i loved him and hes always welcome home anytime.
3 years ago i met my boyfriend and i always saw him when my kids where at their dads every fortnight. Only in the last few months after 3 years have my girls been introduced to him and like him a lot. Now time is passing we would like to maybe one day move in together and get married. For the last three christmas's myself and partner have never had dinner, or spent it together before. My son does not want to be part of my life while i am seeing my boyfriend. I have never forced the issue as i believe he gets enough pressure from his father.
I really cant have my partner on his own this xmas again. Now my son is telling me to choose. Its breaking me.
Please if anyone has been through similar please advise xxxx
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Laura123451 · 21/12/2017 23:35
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