He and his ex had planned he have their children over christmas this year from Friday till Wednesday. They sorted this out in September he asked for Sunday till Wednesday when she got abit worried about not seeing them but then decided that the friday will wed would be fine providing they ring her.
This morning she told him he isn't having them on Christmas Eve and Christmas day. He hasn't really seen them in the last 3 weeks coz she messages on friday (pick up day) and says they have plans. I am trying to get him to understand that weekend access means weekend access and she shouldn't be telling you on Friday that you won't be seeing your kids that weekend. But he feels like he can't push it as she stops the kids from coming altogether
I honestly do feel sorry for him he was super excited and now he's crushed.
I know the best thing I'd court to get something set in place but I have heard so many story's of people not following it through. Plus one of his children isn't his bio child and he may lose access to her completely
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Louw12345 · 15/12/2017 11:43
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