Hello. My boyfriend of two years is a truck driver. My son from my previous relationship is 2 (almost 3). My boyfriend is away most weeks and some weekends, I don’t see him as much as I would like and this means my son sees him even less because I sometimes work weekends or he stays with his dad (from previous relationship). I am finding when my boyfriend and my son are together and my son is playing up as kids do he will lose his temper and curse at my child, I find this upsetting as I don’t think he should be cursing at the child like the child is able to understand it, calling names etc, and puts it down to he believes the child should no better, and that it’s not his temper that’s the problem. This temper and cursing has happened on two occasions now and I am contemplating ending the relationship for the sake of my son as I don’t believe they are bonding well. I believe that my son is a constant reminder to my boyfriend of my ex. Although my boyfriend has tried to build a relationship with my son his job and him being away so much hasn’t helped things, our relationship as a couple is relatively good most of the time as I have learned to accept the work situation. I feel I have no choice but to nip things in the bud now and put my own feelings aside, I was raised in an aggressive house as a child and do not want the same for my son, deeply would appreciate advice from other mums or dads who have been in this situation or know anyone who has.
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HughLauriesStubble ·
21/11/2017 15:33
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