So my ex has 50/50 custody of our four children. They all share one room...four years ago he assured me he'd make sure that was temporary.
3 months ago he gets a new girlfriend who has a son and a daughter.
I've just heard they are having a two night sleepover at his dad's where he and my children live. The three youngest all think it's great 6 children all in one room.
My eldest is 15....she struggling with emotions and expressing herself enough as it is. Her dad is manipulating and gives her massive guilt trips if she wants to see friends on his day. So she and I try and plan it all on my days to alleviate the pressure on her. I dread to think how she feels about this sleeping arrangement.
The new girlfriend met with me and agreed to go slow for the kids sake. She s done the absolute opposite. Yes my ex has too, but didn't expect any less from him.
I cannot communicate with my ex as my daughter gets the backlash from it from him.
What the hell do I do? My poor daughter doing her GCSE s and struggling as it is with life!
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Whatshouldmynamebe321 · 28/10/2017 17:55
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